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16th September, 2025

How Bad Does it Have to Get Before You Act?

With Rachel Morris

Dr Rachel Morris

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We’re terrible at spotting warning signs in ourselves. As medical professionals, we can quickly identify cardiac arrest, sepsis, and red flags in patients, but we ignore these same signs in our own lives.

We wait until things become catastrophic before taking action, thinking the situation will improve with time or that our exhaustion is normal because everyone else feels the same way.

Positive changes start with small steps. Like saying “no” just once, booking a medical appointment for yourself, or taking a two-week break to reassess.

Finding allies who can support you to focus on what you can control today, or seeking ways to reset your nervous system – these are ways you can start to reduce overwhelm without throwing in the towel.

Burnout in healthcare typically follows a gradual decline before a sudden crash. Relationships deteriorate, health suffers, and joy disappears completely. These long-term consequences can be devastating and sometimes irreversible.

So choose one small action this week – send that text, book that appointment, or drop that extra shift. You don’t have to accept familiar misery as your future.

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Reasons to listen

  • To discover why waiting until crisis strikes is a dangerous approach to managing stress and burnout
  • For practical techniques to recognise your personal warning signs before reaching catastrophic burnout
  • For actionable strategies to make small but significant changes that can prevent burnout without requiring complete career transformation

Episode highlights

00:02:34

Why don’t we act early?

00:03:58

Better the devil you know

00:06:33

A question you must ask yourself today

00:09:07

Do you want another year of this?

00:10:50

Make your first step a small step

00:12:56

Things won’t get better until you act

00:15:11

Choose one action

Episode transcript

[00:00:00] Rachel: A few years ago in the middle of a ski village, in the middle of the Alps, a friend of mine had a cardiac arrest. I was part of the group that was there, and I witnessed him collapsing. And because I’m a doctor and I used to run the arrest team and I’ve been trained, I spotted really quickly that he was in cardiac arrest rather than just having had a faint or having a fit or something like that. I was able to act really fast, get to him and start CPR within just a few…

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