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22nd July, 2025

How to Boost Your Leadership Skills (Even if You Don’t Think You’re a Leader)

With Dr Paul O’Dwyer

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It’s easy to think leadership is for someone with a title, or that it’s not our responsibility. But if people look to us for answers, if we’re influencing decisions or guiding others in any way, we’re already leading. Ignoring this reality can lead to poor team dynamics.

But leadership doesn’t have to be overwhelming. It starts with small mindset shifts and a few key skills, with listening as the foundation.

Leadership means making time for reflection and growth, even when we’re busy. Listening to podcasts, reading books, taking a course – it all helps.

If we practice false humility – even with the best of intent – we make life harder for those that rely on us or who are watching us for cues. Teams suffer when leadership is unclear or inconsistent; patients and colleagues lose trust when we don’t step up, even informally.

Leadership isn’t about having all the answers, but about being open, intentional, and ready to grow. This discussion with Dr Paul O’Dwyer will put you on the right path to identifying how to show up, and what next steps to take.

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Reasons to listen

  • To learn why leadership is a vital skill for every healthcare professional, regardless of title or role
  • For practical strategies to improve listening, emotional intelligence, and communication skills for better team dynamics and patient outcomes
  • To understand how embracing leadership can reduce frustration, prevent burnout, and create a more cohesive and effective workplace

Episode highlights

00:03:54

Why we need to talk about leadership

00:06:10

The cost of not acknowledging your role

00:14:24

Why you don’t need a big head to be a leader

00:26:28

Leading with emotional intelligence

00:30:42

Will this make the boat go faster?

00:36:56

The three skills everyone needs

00:40:01

The art of influence

00:43:00

How to find the time

Episode transcript

[00:00:00] Rachel: You might not think of yourself as a leader. You might even say, I’m just here to do my job. But in the world of healthcare, leadership isn’t a title you earn. It’s a role you step into, whether you realize it or not, in this episode of You Are Not a Frog. I’m joined by Dr. Paul O’Dwyer. He’s a dental surgeon and leadership expert. And we’re asking a deceptively simple question, are you really not a leader? [00:00:24] Rachel: Because here’s the thing, if people look to you for answers, if you influence how your team…

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