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Balancing work, family, and our own wellbeing is overwhelming. In medicine especially, keeping up can feel really hard.
But clear goals and well-planned days can help create space for the things that recharge us, like hobbies, rest, and time with loved ones. This helps us show up better in every area of our lives.
Think about what’s most important to you, and what you want to achieve in 2025 and beyond. Break those goals down into smaller, manageable chunks. Define your non-negotiables (gym time, personal time, etc) and stick to them. Build a support network – friends, family, or trusted colleagues – who can help you stay on track and share the load.
Don’t try to do it all alone. Asking for help is not a weakness.
When we avoid taking time out for ourselves, we risk burnout, resentment, and a loss of the joy we once found in our work. Our relationships and mental health suffers, and we can feel stuck in a cycle of exhaustion and frustration.
This discussion with GP and former Paralympian Dr Kim Daybell is your invitation to reflect on what recharges you. Schedule one thing this week that brings you joy or helps you feel balanced. It could be as simple as a walk, a coffee with a friend, or a hobby you’ve been neglecting. Start small, but start now.
Show links
More episodes of You Are Not a Frog:
- What Does High-Performance Look Like? – Episode 227, with Anne Hartslief
- Why Setting Goals Alone Won’t Help – Episode 210
- How to Thrive in a High-Stress Job When You’re Neurodivergent – Episode 178, with Matthew Bellringer
About the guests
Reasons to listen
- To learn practical strategies for balancing demanding careers with personal priorities and wellbeing
- To discover how thinking “quality over quantity” can help you achieve high performance in any field
- To understand the importance of building a support network and seeking feedback for continuous improvement
Episode highlights
The importance of a great team
Quality over quantity
Finding the time
Getting over your fear of failure
Fear of negative feedback
Asking for feedback
Remember to enjoy the journey
Carving out time and space for yourself
Self-care is essential care
Kim’s top tips
Episode transcript
[00:00:00] Rachel: What does 2025 have in store for you? Have you thought about what you want to achieve or what direction he wants to take? [00:00:06] Rachel: You, and I know that new year’s resolutions don’t often survive the first week, but if you want to improve your work life so that you feel energized rather than drained, you might have some goals for the year. [00:00:17] Rachel: This week, I’m speaking to Dr. Kim Daybell. a GP and former Paralympian who’s represented the UK in London and Rio. While he was training speed. Solta he was also training…