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12th August, 2025

How to Get Better Sleep

With Dr Steve Smith

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We all struggle with getting a good night’s sleep from time to time… some of us more than others. Whether it’s waking up in the middle of the night worrying, dealing with long-standing insomnia, or the meta worry of not sleeping enough, it can feel like a good night’s rest is out of our control. It’s frustrating, not to mention exhausting.

Sleep isn’t something we can force – it just needs the right conditions. This includes practicing good sleep hygiene, calming our racing thoughts, and building a healthy mindset around rest. Techniques like ACT can help us manage sleep anxiety by teaching us to let go of thoughts we can’t control.

Poor sleep seriously impacts our physical and mental health. It increases the risk of cardiovascular disease, depression, and even memory problems. It also leaves us less productive, less creative, and more prone to anxiety. When we’re consistently unable to get a handle on our sleep, the cycle of exhaustion and stress continues.

To break that cycle, set a consistent bedtime and wake-up time, even on weekends. Create a calm and comfortable sleeping environment by making your bedroom cool, dark, and free of distractions. Put your phone away well before bedtime and avoid using it as an alarm clock. If your mind is busy, try mindfulness techniques to notice your worries without engaging with them. Listen to this episode in full for Steve’s invaluable advice.

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Reasons to listen

  • For practical strategies to overcome sleep anxiety and insomnia
  • To discover the critical role of sleep in improving mental and physical health
  • To understand the importance of sleep hygiene, rhythm, and mindset in creating ideal conditions for restorative sleep

Episode highlights

00:05:00

Sleep anxiety

00:08:22

Why we need to sleep

00:14:14

How social jet lag impacts your sleep

00:16:43

Rebound REM

00:18:18

What to track when tracking sleep

00:26:59

Everything’s worse at 3am

00:30:42

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy + sleep

00:38:33

Sleep disorders to look out for

00:42:44

Steve’s top tips

00:43:37

Put your phone to bed

Episode transcript

[00:00:00] Rachel: Everything is worse at three in the morning. There’s that to-do list piling up or that early clinic you’ve got to make, or that thing you said to your colleague that you just can’t stop thinking about. These worries just pile up at night and that’s on top of that cheeky glass of wine late at night or that piece of cheese or that doom scrolling when all you meant to do was set your alarm. [00:00:19] Rachel: And we are constantly told how important getting a good night’s sleep is, particularly in a high stakes job. But…

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