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Episode Category: Difficult Conversations and Coaching

Episode 334 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Embrace Your Capacity Instead of Defining Your Limits

Most of us were taught that having limits is a weakness – something to push through, not something to honour.

Episode 331 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

Why Every Doctor Should Learn to Coach

Boundaries aren’t walls. They’re fences. A wall keeps everyone out. A fence has a gate, and it’s yours to open

Episode 329 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Hold Someone Accountable Without Losing the Relationship

There’s something most leaders do – we avoid the conversation that needs to be had. We care too much about

Episode 323 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

The Occupational Hazard Every High-Achieving Leader Needs to Know About

Getting a complaint from a colleague is one of the most destabilising things that can happen to a high-achieving leader.

Episode 303 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Confront Someone Without Creating Conflict (According to a Conflict Expert)

In healthcare, we’re trained to tell patients hard truths about their conditions, but we struggle to have honest conversations with

Episode 294 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to stop conflict from turning ugly

Conflict is unavoidable in high-stakes leadership roles. What starts as a simple disagreement can quickly turn toxic when our defensive

Episode 291 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

If I don’t do it, who else will?

It’s time to question our assumptions around saying no. Saying no isn’t bad; it’s often the right thing to do.

Episode 290 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

Clear and direct is better than hinting and hoping

If you’ve ever sent an email asking for something “ASAP” only to get a response a fortnight later, or said

Episode 278 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to survive a complaint from another clinic ian

Complaints from other clinicians can be one of the most stressful challenges we face in healthcare. They can stem from

Episode 272 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

What to do if someone challenges YOUR behaviour

Sometimes, we find ourselves behaving in ways we’re not proud of, especially in high-stress environments. We snap, shout, or act

Episode 251 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to stop turning “you” problems into “me” problems

We often turn other people’s problems into our own, taking on undue stress and responsibility. This can make us overwork

Episode 234 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

The exact script to use when a colleague’s being rude

Interactions between team members can have a big impact on performance and outcomes. Disrespect and hostility can create a threatening

Episode 224 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

What to do when you don’t know what to do

We all have moments in life when we feel disorientated and unsure where to go next. Maybe there’s a sense

Episode 219 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

What to do when a colleague isn’t pulling their weight

Performance management might sound like a daunting phrase, and something we’d probably all rather avoid. It can come with conflict

Episode 201 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to decide if you need to stay or leave a difficult situation

Listen to this episode to Learn how to make difficult decisions when facing a dilemma of staying or leaving a

Episode 192 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to challenge upsetting behaviour

Interactions between team members can have a big impact on performance and outcomes. Disrespect and hostility can create a threatening

Episode 191 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

The real reason other people’s boundaries make us cross

When someone else sets boundaries, do you feel able to do the same, or do you resent their ability to

Episode 181 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

Get some air cover to help you set boundaries

We’re not just service providers – we’re carers and helpers. This can make it hard to set boundaries and prioritise

Episode 175 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Influence Without Getting Frustrated

You have brilliant ideas and solutions that can make a difference in your work. But how do you get others

Episode 134 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Tell People What They Don’t Want to Hear

In this episode, Jane Gunn joins us once again to share her advice on how you can say no. Most

Episode 117 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

The Surprising Power of Self Coaching (and How to Do it Well)

Some problems are a breeze to solve, but others can leave you dithering for ages. Ignore them for too long,

Episode 113 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

What to Do When a Junior is Badmouthing Your Colleagues

Dr Ed Pooley joins us in this episode to discuss what we should do when we see inappropriate behaviour like

Episode 104 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Cope With Nightmare Relatives and Colleagues Without Losing the Plot

Holidays and celebrations often come with their own set of obstacles and difficulties. Our idea of a perfect holiday never

Episode 96 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Deal With Difficult Meetings with Jane Gunn

In this episode, we hear from the expert in conflict management and mediation, Jane Gunn. She discusses important tips to

Episode 95 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

3 Conversations Which Will Get You Unstuck with Annie Hanekom

Annie Hanekom joins us to share the three important conversations you need to have — with yourself and with others

Episode 90 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

What to Do About Bitching and Backbiting with Dr Edward Pooley

This week, Dr Edward Pooley teaches us how to respond when colleagues make inappropriate comments about others. He gives us

Episode 85 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Have Crucial Conversations with Dr Ed Pooley

Dr Edward Pooley joins us again to teach us how to communicate well. He discusses the three strands of communication

Episode 76 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

Tech Tips for Happy Hybrid Working with Dr Hussain Gandhi

Dr. Hussain Gandhi, or Dr. Gandalf of eGPlearning, joins us in this episode. He is a GP, PCN director, and

Episode 62 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

Self-Coaching for Success with Dr Karen Castille, OBE

Have you ever felt stuck and wish you knew what to do next? Many people with high-stress jobs find themselves

Episode 53 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Be More Anti-Racist

This year, the issue of racial discrimination is forefront in our minds. It exists in every profession and every walk

Episode 47 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Have a Courageous Conversation

Just before lockdown, Rachel recorded this episode that specifically deals with helping individuals and teams manage those difficult conversations that

Episode 37 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Manage Conflict During COVID with Jane Gunn

This week Rachel is thrilled to welcome back Jane Gunn – lawyer, mediator and expert in conflict resolution who has

Episode 23 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

How to Do Conflict Well with Jane Gunn

In this episode, Rachel is joined by Jane Gunn, a ex-lawyer, mediator, trainer and expert in resolving conflict in the

Episode 14 |
| Difficult Conversations and Coaching

Help! My Senior Partner is a Jerk, with Dr Jamie Wyllie

In this episode, Rachel is joined by Dr Jamie Wyllie co-author and presenter of the Red Whale Lead. Manage. Thrive!

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